mixedpale.
ok I’m seeing folks using the tired old argument of “There’s no reason to self-diagnose because you can’t get treatment/medication/prescriptions etc and so people only do it for special snowflake points!”
and like apart from the fact that i have no idea what special snowflake points are supposed to be or do this is wrong on so many levels
First of all you are heavily falling into the trap of the medical model of disability and treating disabled people as only existing in a medical context. You cannot fathom disabled people existing outside of us being treated by the medical system and thats scary
There are many reasons why someone would self-diagnose even though it does not give you access to these things. For instance it enables you to find a community of people who can understand and support you, it can help you to understand and contextualise your actions and feelings and work out what you need, it can help you to explain to the people around you why things are different for you etc
Community, support and understanding are vital for disabled people and only looking at us from a medical angle is why we are often denied these very things.
concept: u and i go to the aquarium for our first date. u are nervous as u try to hold my hand. but u accidentally knock the cracker out of my hand because ur a piece of shit and u don’t use ur eyes. there goes my damn cracker. look what u have done. i run away screaming and never return ur phone calls. it’s been three years and u still write to me occasionally but i never answer. where is my cracker
I’m trying to find some recent, educational documentaries on snakes in general, and it’s like:
WORLD’S DEADLIEST SNAKES
THE WORLD’S MOST DANGEROUS SNAKE ON THE EARTH
THE DEADLY GIANT SNAKE
THE MOST VENOMOUS SNAKE IN THE WORLD
THE VALLEY OF SNAKES AND FEAR
AFRICA’S MOST DEADLY SNAKE, THE BLACK MAMBA – WHICH WE HAVEN’T EVEN USED AS OUR COVER IMAGE – BUT THAT’S DEFINITELY A BLACK SNAKE
THIRTY-FOUR WAYS BALL PYTHONS WILL KILL YOU WITH THEIR BARE HANDS
DO YOU LIVE ON EARTH? ARE YOU AWARE OF SNAKES? WELL, THERE’S PROBABLY VENOM IN YOUR MORNING COFFEE
Versus the documentaries I actually want to see:
WORLD’S MOST EXTREME SNOOT BOOPING
FATTEST NOODLE OF THE AMAZON
HOW LONG IS THIS FUCKING SNAKE GOING TO FAST I MEAN SERIOUSLY YOU HAVE TO EAT
PEOPLE THAT WERE STUPID: REPTILE EDITION
VENOMOUS PROTEINS AND GENETICS: TOXICOFERAN SMACKDOWN
50 PLOPPIEST PUPPIES
INVASIVE SPECIES 101
I’m screaming??? So my cat knows I get upset when he steps on my paintings (not yelling or anything I think he just sees me spend hours trying to cover up what his paws do) in my “studio” which is a crammed small storage closet with painting all over the floor drying , so like I’m in there rn and I saw him try to get to point A to point b but it was impossible for him to jump over so like he realized the matte parts were dry and like he was stepping on the corners of the painting and every step he’d look at his paw to see if he fucked up and honestly it was the most thoughtful thing ever I don’t ever wanna hear anyone ever say that cats don’t care
I’m screaming??? So my cat knows I get upset when he steps on my paintings (not yelling or anything I think he just sees me spend hours trying to cover up what his paws do) in my “studio” which is a crammed small storage closet with painting all over the floor drying , so like I’m in there rn and I saw him try to get to point A to point b but it was impossible for him to jump over so like he realized the matte parts were dry and like he was stepping on the corners of the painting and every step he’d look at his paw to see if he fucked up and honestly it was the most thoughtful thing ever I don’t ever wanna hear anyone ever say that cats don’t care
This is Dream Lake, Rocky Mountain National Park during the winter time. (Source)
Brain: Take the bone.
Me: I have so many random half-broken bones already and don’t know what to do with them. I think I’ll just leave this one.
Brain: Take it.
Me: …okay.